Sexual foreplay is indispensible to giving your woman the kind of arousal that will bring on an orgasm she’ll really enjoy. In this regard, there are a number of “erogenous zones” on a woman’s body, one of which is the breasts. But every woman is different … and there is a right and a wrong way to “play” with her breasts. In this article, we will focus on the best ways to kiss a woman’s breasts so that you please her and make her feel that she really means something to you.
For a man, a woman’s breasts can be a real turn-on – but for a woman, they have often been something she associates with nurture. So you need to ensure that when dealing with this part of her body, you don’t give her the impression that you’re just there to “feed” on her for your own satisfaction. She needs to know that you’re “giving” not “receiving”.
So here’s what to do:
Begin by gently kissing around her breasts, with soft, moist lips. As you do so, gradually move towards the nipples and when you arrive at that spot, exhale on her nipples so that she feels the sensation of your warm breath. As you focus on the nipples themselves, start by using the tip of your tongue to circle around the nipple in a light “tickling” fashion. Don’t just focus on one breast alone – remember, she has two of them!
Then you want to caress the nipples themselves with your tongue and while doing so, be alert to signs that she may be enjoying it. If she sighs, moans or makes a sudden movement, it means she’s enjoying the experience. Take note of this, because you want to read her body language so you know just how she likes it.
You should soon feel her nipples begin to protrude. This is the point where you should harden your tongue and being flicking it back and forth over the now erect nipples. If her nipples haven’t hardened yet, then suck each one gently and as you release it, exhale over it. The evaporative effect will produce an icy sensation which should do the job. Now suck the nipple and very lightly nibble on it, perhaps using your lip instead of bottom teeth as support, so there’s some “give”.
You want to cup the breast in your hand as you’re doing this. There is a good chance that by this time, other parts on the breast will be more sensitive, so kissing or licking under the breast or between them should turn her on. Don’t pay attention to only one breast – move between each one and while giving this kind of attention to one, gently rub or lightly pinch the other one – but make sure you have wet it with your tongue first. This can make a difference between an association in her mind with a breast feeder or a lover.
A critical thing to remember is, to not get too rough or to suck too hard. You don’t want to hear her say the words “I’m not a cow, you know” 
Be very gentle!
A final word of advice – communicate with your partner! If you’re in a committed relationship, ask her what she likes and how she likes it. Some women don’t even enjoy light nibbling while others like it if you bite them. Everyone is different. Some women have sensitive breasts while other don’t, particularly if they’ve had implants. The most important thing is to pay attention. If you work out what she really enjoys, you can make her happy every time.
The above ideas are just some of the many tips on the art of lovemaking outlined in Oprah love expert, Michael Webb’s
500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets
Dating is the time for first impressions that last, so you need to get the important things right. Kissing is one of them. If you’re a woman who really likes someone, you want to make sure that when he kisses you, he will want to do it again and again. What you’re about to read is a take on this subject from a man’s perspective. As someone who has kissed a number of women not long after the first date, these are my reflections and thoughts on what made some kisses very ordinary, while others, spectacular.
And I have to say … statistically speaking, the enjoyable kisses were about 5 percent of them all. The rest were very ordinary, even unpleasant. Maybe the women in their 40s that I’ve kissed are not representative of the entire female population, but in my opinion, there are certainly a lot of women out there who have no idea what to do. So here are some important things to remember:
Before You Even Think About Kissing a Man
Make sure your lips are soft and warm. There’s nothing more unpleasant than a passionate moment that ends abruptly because you’ve rubbed your lips on someone else’s scales. Use a lip balm to keep your lips soft and exfoliate them with a toothbrush and warm water.
Make sure you smell good. This means choosing your perfumes and body powders carefully. There’s nothing worse than kissing someone who smells like grandma. If you want to be sensual, think ‘young and fresh’ when selecting these things. Also, look after yourself and bathe regularly, because body odour or stale perspiration is a real turn-off. As for your breath … need I say more?
Doing It
The song lyrics that say “it’s in his kiss” apply just as much to women as to men. A man will read how much he means to you by the way you kiss him. If he’s looking at you for a long term prospect, he will also get a clear impression of what he’s in for in the way of sensual delights or otherwise. You want to make sure it counts because ‘how it feels when you kiss’ is high on a man’s priority list that determines how he feels about you.
Whatever you do, don’t purse your lips when kissing. He will think you might be an ice-queen or be reminded of grandma’s kisses. If you get to the point where you want to kiss a man then let him know that you’re a warm blooded woman. Make it count or don’t bother. You need to open your mouth or he might shut his heart. This doesn’t mean get straight into swapping saliva and slipping tongues – that might be a bit overwhelming and send a different message. But soft extended lips and an open mouth is where you need to start.
Gently touch your lips to his. Taste and savour the shape and texture of his mouth. Roll your lips over his and gently suck one of them or let him do this to you. If he’s kissing your teeth or pressing your lips against your teeth, you have a serious problem. Put your lips out there! Also, keep your eyes closed or your man will think you’re just putting up with it.
After that, all you need is to do what feels right. Take it as it comes, but let the man lead. That might be as far as you both want to go. On the other hand, your mutual body language may be telling you it’s time to kick it up a notch. The signs for this are usually heavier breathing, wrapping arms more intensely around each other, more kissing around the face or neck and a sense of urgency and desire. This will send you into the sexiest kiss of them all – the French kiss.
The French Kiss beats all the others for sheer sexiness and is a sure way to fan the flames of desire. This is where you introduce your tongues. He will let you know when he wants that, but you must also feel ready for it to go there. Stick your tongue into his mouth and gently touch the tip of your tongue to his. Stroke his tongue with yours, brushing sideways, while letting him know you want this by having your hands or arms around the back of his neck. What you do after that will depend entirely on how you feel about each other.
The perfect kiss comes in many forms, from nervous pecks on the cheek to supercharged sloppy wet kisses. It all depends on you and your partner and the dynamics of the moment. For some, a kiss might be a way of saying “I love you”; to others, it might simply be saying “let’s enjoy ourselves and see how it feels”.
A kiss is not everything, but when it really counts, you don’t want to blow it.
This is only the beginning. There’s a whole lot more to discover about the best Kissing Techniques in Oprah love expert, Michael Webb’s book “500 Love Tips“.
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