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The art of lovemaking and just “having sex” are two very different things. The latter is purely mechanical and for a man, can be over within minutes, since that’s how long it will take him to climax.But if you want to make the experience one she’ll remember (and look forward to again) then I’m afraid you’re going to have to put a bit of work in. This is where the “love”-making bit comes in. It’s about giving and then receiving, not just about self satisfaction. Use those female erogenous zones and you’ll get much more back from her than you expect.

If your overall relationship is good (that may even be because you don’t know each other that well yet), what follows will show you how to give her the many happy orgasms she deserves and you’ll not only get what you want, but experience far greater enjoyment as well.

So what are these female erogenous zones anyway? They are those areas of a woman’s body that, when stimulated, turn her on sexually. The most talked about one is the famous G Spot in the vagina, but before you get there, you need to focus on the erogenous zones beyond the genitalia.

Here are the top four.

The Neck

The female neck is perhaps one of the most sensitive erogenous zones of her body. It’s the one you usually see happening in the movies. Softly kissing this area from her shoulder, moving up to below her ear (while at the same time massaging it with your tongue) will send tingles and pulses up and down her spine. Keep at it and she will be breathing heavily in a very short period of time.

The Ear Lobes

Sucking ear lobes isn’t for everyone. Some girls get the tickles when you do it but others simply adore it. While you’re there you can whisper sweet nothings in her ear. As your warm breath caresses her ear, it will really turn her on. Women like close facial contact. If you also massage her ear lobes with your fingers from time to time this can feel very nice.

The Nipples

This female erogenous zone is very sensitive. A woman’s nipples become hard and sit up right when stimulated with your tongue. Give both breasts even attention and also kiss down in between her breasts as you work your way between both of them. If she hasn’t grabbed your head by this stage and held it into her bosom, something’s not right.

The Belly Button

See how we’re working our way down her body toward the genitals? You should try and stimulate the belly button before full intercourse. Kissing this area with your lips and tongue will vibrate through her reproductive area and arouse her G spot.

Finally, if you want to become a better lover, think of lovemaking as an art, not an exercise. The female erogenous zones are your steps and how you move through them is the dance that is truly yours. Ask your partner what she likes and what she wants you to do to her. She will know you’re thinking of her, so she will want to please you too.

This is only the beginning. There’s a whole lot more to discover about the female erogenous zones in Oprah love expert, Michael Webb’s book “500 Love Tips“.

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We all like to think we’re good lovers, but in reality, most of us know there’s room for improvement. After all, how we enjoy sex is integral to the quality of any committed romantic relationship. It’s the thing that puts that twinkle in your eye when you look at each other the next day, because you both know you’ve shared something special together.

Some people are embarrassed to talk about lovemaking, especially with their partners. How the man or the woman views this experience, is often programmed into them from an early age by the perceptions of a parent or caregiver and confirmed through life’ experiences. But like anything in life, if you want to achieve enjoyment and fulfilment from it, you must be prepared to talk about it.

Like any other art, you need to practice the art of lovemaking in order to become really good at it. In this regard, men and women have different perceptions of what being a “good lover” ia all about. If you ask a man, he will focus on technique and results, such as “she had multiple orgasms”. But if you ask a woman, she will remember the setting and atmosphere leading up to the lovemaking. So if we want the most memorable lovemaking experience, we need to take both the above into account. The secret is to become creative. Music, smells, lighting and colours all combine to produce the most sensually arousing setting for the most memorable lovemaking.

The art of lovemaking is about intimacy and this comes from openness and trust. It is so important to communicate with each other. When you feel a heart-to-heart connection with your partner, your lovemaking can be pure ecstacy. So we have to learn to be honest and let your partner know exactly how you feel.

We cannot overemphasise the importance of foreplay in the art of lovemaking. Sometimes we can be so focussed on reaching orgasm that we forget to simply enjoy the pleasure of lovemaking. Instead, we only experience frustration. This is especially likely when lovemaking no longer seems like an adventure of doing something different together. It becomes routine. But can you imagine having sensual foreplay without actually having sex?

Men need to realize that woman want to be loved all over. You need to taste each other, touch each other, see each other, smell each other, hear each other. These are the five senses and if we use them all, it will not only draw you closer, you will also want each other more, leading to an explosive climax.

Then there are the “errogenous zones” - those pleasure zones in numerous parts of our bodies. Why does a woman sigh when a man whispers into his girlfriend’s ear? The truth is, most men, as well as women, can become aroused when their partner pays attention to certain special spots beyond the genitalia. The key to foreplay lies in the stimulation of the major and minor errogenous zones.

Oh … and there’s more!

The above ideas are just some of the many tips on the art of lovemaking outlined in Oprah love expert, Michael Webb’s

500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets